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April 16 GrowthI have been taking part in the Oprah and Eckhart Tolle live web class on Mondays. I am going through another life purge, this one is more poignant. I say poignant because I have released some friends from my life. Like all social introverts I feel the loss deeply, at moments like this I feel torn. My mother always told me during adolescence to choose my friends wisely. Your friends should be on the same level as you trying to get to where you are going. At what point do you say I have outgrown you, is it selfish to move on?
I feel as if I have jumped ship. Is there such a thing as bailing out of a friendship? To be honest I couldn't take the constant train wrecks. I am not saying that I expect drama free friendships, heck I am a work in progress, but I will not stand for self sabotage. I know that you cannot walk another persons journey. When needed, we all get help sometimes but accepting the help is another issue. I got tired of being the punching bag. I wouldn't accept that type of behaviour from a stranger. To my ownself be true.
I stand in the gap for my pts with the understanding that I will only do so until they can do better. I can only help those who want to be helped. In the interim another's madness is just that, theirmadness. |
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